1. Officiating pastor
a) Bishop Simba
May 19, 2023:
Committee agreed to have FMK and TMK check on Bishop Simba for availability
May 20,2023
FMK called Bishop Simba, and Bishop has been discharged from hospital. Bishop will be checking his calendar and update us on availability
May 27, 2023
Joshua & Esther met Bishop Simba, and he agreed to be officiator on July 1, 2023. Requirements include
- Ksh. 5,500 for marriage certificate,
- Return transport for him and his wife
- Any extra token will be voluntary and an appreciation
2. Grooms
May 18, 2023
5 grooms contacted by JMM and consent acquired for creating a common WhatsApp group. All consent confirmed on May 19, 2023
May 20, 2023
WhatsApp group for grooms created and, phase one of discussions initiated (introduction, consensus on dressing colors, and consensus on how best to make the clothes)
May 22, 2023
Designer (African Yuva) added to WhatsApp group. Group committed to link with tailor to have measurements and payments for clothing done by June 11, 2023 – to allow for next phase of discussions
3. Maids
May 18, 2023
5 maids and 1 maid of honor contacted by Esther. WhatsApp group to be created on Monday May 22, 202
May 19, 2023
Esther shall be linking with Mama Miriam and Mama Edwine to coordinate the dressing for ladies and children by May 21, 2023
May 23, 2023 to May 27, 2023
Esther bought material on Tuesday and got in touch with tailor. The bridal team paid their deposits to the tailor and clothes preparation has begun
4. Attorney general process
May 29, 2023
Joshua & Esther visited Kitui for registration notice. They were referred to Machakos as registration materials in Kitui were out of stock. They registered their intention to wed and a search of civil records initiated at a fee of Ksh. 600. They will be picking the marriage permit from Machakos Attorney General office on June 22, 2023
June 2, 2023
Joshua, Esther and Joel Mumo developed invitation cards to be sent out to respective churches as from June 4, 2023. Joel Mumo sent these to Mwingi via Kinatwa. FMK will pick and deliver respective cards for Katakani and Tseikuru Baptist church while Joshua/Esther will deliver for Word of Faith Mwingi and Mwingi Baptist Churchers
5. Dowry payments (finalization)
May 19, 2023
TMK shall lead the planning for delivery of 2 cows and a donkey on June 30, 2023.
FMK shall initiate contact with Mutinda Muti, who shall assist with transport logistics.
Munyithya/Nyamai will accompany the dowry items
May 27, 2023
FMK and Mama Muithya visited Esther’s parents to discuss arrangements on wedding and muthoko. Esther’s dad requested for an additional cow and Joshua’s parents agreed (Koma family will actually be taking 5 cows/bulls).
June 1, 2023
Koma (Muithya’s grandfather) sold one bull as agreed to buy two cows
6. Nzoka preparations
May 19, 2023
DMK shall initiate discussions with David Musila (Tseikuru chair) by May 21, 2023. Proposed date for first physical meeting of home committee meeting is June 3, 2023 that shall kickstart the process. David Musila & DMK shall lead the physical meetings
TMK shall establish whether there is a place where Tseikuru relatives can freshen up
May 29, 2023
Relatives from Tseikuru formally invited to Kalimbui on June 3, 2023. Agenda is to discuss wedding preparations as Muithya’s kin
7. Katakani communication
May 19, 2023
FMK tasked to update Esther’s parents on preparations by May 21, 2023. Later communications to Esther’s family shall be through the broader family chair (David Musila)
May 27, 2023
FMK and Mama Muithya visited Esther’s parents to discuss arrangements on wedding and muthoko. Esther’s dad requested for an additional cow and Joshua’s parents agreed (Koma family will actually be taking 5 cows/bulls).
8. Friends/relatives WhatsApp group
May 19, 2023
DMK tasked with preparing guidelines on how admins can add friends/relatives to the common WhatsApp group by May 26, 2023.
9. Service providers
a) Tents
May 19, 2023
FMK shall contact Mutinda Muti by June 25, 2023 regarding tents
b) Videography and photography
May 19, 2023
FMK assigned to lead liaison with James on photography/videography for the day by June 22, 2023
May 26, 2023
Esther and Muithya’s parents discussed photography/videography and agreed to have James as photographer/videographer for the day
June 1, 2023
FMK confirmed that James agreed to take photos/videos of the July 1 event
Joshua and Esther engaged Joel Mumo as a friend to provide supplementary photography for the day
c) Catering
May 19, 2023
Mama Muithya assigned to lead engagement of catering service providers by June 1, 2023
d) Public address system
May 19, 2023
DMK assigned to lead engagement of Rev Titus Musenge regarding the public address system by May 25, 2023
10. Joshua/Esther Checklist
May 19, 2023
Joshua & Esther were tasked to generate a checklist of all required items by May 25, 2023 and share with Komas. DMK shall be checking on them to ensure that they remain on track and on schedule.
